Dealing with Opposers

Off late, a brother has turned sour and negative towards the brothers in the church life who are enjoying the ministry of the age. This brother himself visited the church in Gurugram and also my family last year when he talked so highly about the ministry and his enjoyment of the truth and the church life. He even created a WhatsApp group for sharing his enjoyment of the church life. I hardly posted anything there and simply visited the group once in a while. In fact, I visited him and his family at the beginning of this year and stayed for a night in his home. We fellowshipping with him and his family when he testified of how much he enjoyed the Lord and how much the ministry literature has helped him. 

A month a ago, the same brother suddenly posted a very negative message accusing all the brothers in the church life of being "fake". He accused others of being fake when I really felt he himself was fake, as a genuine brother will never accuse his fellow brothers of being fake. Heeding to the advice of a brother, we all left the WhatsApp group. Later, he created another group with the name "I love you brothers". Though I did not see the messages initially I could at least discern, for in the first line of messages post which I could see even without opening the message directly. Later, I saw many brothers left the group one by one. But deep within me, I left this brother need shepherding. At the same time, I would not give myself into his negative smearing campaign. As I look to the Lord how to handle him I felt deep within that I should wait for some time to elapse. I waited until we finished our Summer Training 2020. Then, I got a light from the Lord that I need to be tenderhearted in dealing with negative brothers and act wisely, not to deal with him as a person but to shepherd him and recover him as a brother.

In fact, in the past, I had dealt with negative people by facing them head-on. When they accused I counter defended the ministry with appropriate Bible verses. In fact, in the process of defense, I won the fight but I lost these dear brothers. They could not fight back with baseless accusations for that will be replied back with scriptural verses. But I learned a very precious lesson that in dealing with negative brothers, I should not debate. They are negative because they are too much in the mind gripped by the enemy. I should not stoop down to their level and fight negativity with negativity. That's what Satan wanted to do among brothers. But I must not commit the same mistake of trying to win a doctrinal fight. I should rather pray and win over the negative brother sand recover him back to the normal church life. I hope I will learn this lesson this time. Therefore, I would not fight back despite his blatant false accusation until the Lord would lead me to respond in love.  

Last Lord day, the Lord gave me the peace to see the messages posted in the group and I went through all the messages. The messages were full of hatred though the group name is on love. I could discern that this brother has turned sour and became very negative. Without any substance nor proof, he simply accused the ministry of "cult" and "no fruit or practicality". I could easily discern the state of mind he was in, and his spiritual condition. The only way is to pray for him and as the Lord leads, fellowship with him. After a thorough prayer especially for him, I called him in the evening to fellowship with him. Our fellowship lasted for over an hour.

He asked me a couple of questions which I answered them all with relevant scriptural verses.  I answered because he asked. After all his queries were answered he called me, "you are  a genuine brother." And he accused the other brothers as fake as nobody dared to call him in his state of mind. And for me, I considered this brother as my own brother and wanted to genuinely help him. For some, the best way to deal with him is simply to avoid him and cut him off. But for me, the Lord did not lead me that way. I have a strong faith that he would be recovered. And in the process, I will learn a precious lesson of shepherding all kinds of sheep, including the black sheep.

Now that we have agreed to pray together once a week, I would treasure this time together, bringing ourselves to the Lord. Christ and Him crucified is the solution to all the problems in our Christian life and church life. I remember myself being negative at one point in time. But by the Lord's mercy I was preserved not to burst out my anger and go astray. The Lord gradually healed me through the word of God, prayer, and fellowship. In the same way, the Lord can heal anyone of negativity. The Lord as the Good Shepherd will heal all negative persons though proper shepherding care with much prayer and fellowship. 

Lord, shepherd me to be able to shepherd others, especially in dealing with opposers.

Dealing with Garbage

Garbages are real garbage indeed that it needs to be disposed of at the earliest. Our kitchen garbage has been disposed of regularly to a nearby garbage dumping bin which basically is meant for the shops in the shopping complex. Since our home is adjacent to the complex we find it easier to dump in the garbage bin there. But of late, we were prohibited to dump any further as that was meant for the shops in the complex. Faced with this prohibition we had to give our garbage to the garbage collector. But to my surprise, the garbage boy was so adamant and would not collect from our home at all for some reason. Perhaps, he wanted some money to be paid? Or, since we never used him for the past years and I had requested him in person but his ego would not stoop down to my request of collecting the garbage in my home? Even after repeated requests he was not willing to budge in and would simply not collect at all even when confronted, reminding him that it was his duty to do so, and he was paid for it in our maintenance bill. Reasoning did not work with him.

For about a week or so we were left in the lurch. Neither could we throw garbage in the garbage bin nor the garbage boy would pick it up. So we had to throw it at a distance garbage dumping area. But that was not the solution. How long could we dispose off our garbage to a distant dumping area? We are the legal resident of the community paying all the fees regularly for the past twelve years. How could I let things just go off? 

I checked with my neighbor and he advised me to lodge a complaint with the customer care. I did that for over a week, calling the customer helpline almost daily. Every time I was promised to solve the issue, yet was never solved. Every time I called I got a formal message stating that my complaint had been registered and would be resolved soon. The same call with the same response had been repeated over and over again. Then I finally decided to take the matter to the maintenance department where I was given a phone number. This phone number was never answered even after repeated calling. Therefore I had to go back to the maintenance department to take them to task. 

Then, I was told to contact another department that handles garbage collection. I went there in person and registered my grievance with the person concerned. He finally promised me that the matter would be solved the same day itself. The same day, a garbage collector came and collected the uncollected gardbage for a couple of days altogether. Then, from the following day, the garbage boy collected the garbage placed near our gate. The proces took over two weeks. Thank God, finally, the issue was resolved.

In this process, I personally, and, we as a family, took the matter before the Lord in prayer. The Lord simply wanted us to trust in Him for all things. Even minute and non-issue like this, which should have been legitimately handled by the community welfare, we need to trust the Lord for it. Perhaps, the Lord wanted us to pray and trust him even for our legitimate rights. In every bit of our lives, we have to trust the Lord. That's what we are being led to.

Thank God for this lesson of trusting the Lord; we find opportunity to trust the Lord in every area of our lives. In dealing with garbages, we need to trust the Lord. Yes, in dealing with life's garbages too, we need to trust the Lord.

An Engagement Meeting

A brother and a sister have been in a relationship for a couple of years now. Though they never thought they would take the relationship further to consummate in marriage yet, they somehow wanted an engagement that was necessary as the brother had to make a commitment to the relationship as he has consecrated his life for two years to be in the full-time training. The training regulation requires that he either cut off any romantic relationship so as not to be distracted from the training or be properly engaged so that his relationship remains a testimony. As the church brothers, we felloowshipped with the couple and the brother's family first. The sisters's family however was not willing to accept the relationship and would not agree to take it further. But the matter was in fellowship and prayed over.

As we approached the sister's famliy again, it was very clear that her parents would not budge in.  Yet they could not give up their relationship either, and still the brother had to go through the full-time training. The only solutuion is to somehow get the consent of the sister's parent. How to do that? 

As I was considering before the Lord, I felt deep within that this matter will go through,provided done in  a proper and humane way. I felt good to bring in a brother and sister from the church in Aizawl to be our spokespersons and talk to the sisters's parent on behalf of the church. Here, humanity is very much invovlved. The Mizos by nature are very socialising people. Especially, when it comes to people of the same Mizo community. So I fellowshipped with the Mizo saints to fellwoship with the sister's parent who are Mizos themselves. Initially, their response was still  negative, and expressede a very strong reaction against it. But we kept the matter in prayer. A week later, I got an information that they changed their minds and were ready for fellowship. I didn't know how that change transpired from an emphatic no to a  sweet yes. I believe, prayer and the fellowship and coordination in the Body. So, last week we set up a Zooom online meeting to hear from them their feeling about the engnagement of their daughter to the brother concerned. They all spoke up in agreement and we all decided for the engagement a week  later.

Today, as the church in Gurugram we conducted an online engagement meeting where I did the hosting and the other saints participated in hymn singing, prayer, sharing the word, etc. In fellowship and prayer, what seemed to be impossible became possible. The Lord works in a miraculous and mysterious ways. Thank God for His sovereingity! We have been praying that all these be for the Lord's testiomony's sake. We have no personal interest except for the interest of the Lord and His testimony.

By the way, this is the first enganement meeting we have in the church. We hope that in the coming days the Lord will also lead us in the marriage meeting of the saints.

The faithful Lord has been leading us through and through.  May the Lord preserve the couple and their families for His testimony!

A Surprise Visit

Yesterday I ended up meeting a family that has been contacted almost fifteen years ago in Gurugram. I had no idea how this family was first contacted, but one thing was sure that they loved the Lord and somehow they came into contact with us. Since they have been very regular to a  pentecostal group under the shepherding of a pastor, we decided not to follow up on them as they are already under a pastor. As long as they love the Lord and are in fellowship, they may go ahead in their way of life unless otherwise, the Lord makes us meet together again. So basically this family has been "given up" for a home visit from my side.

Now and then the husband would call up, but I no longer paid heed to visit this family ever again.  In fact, a brother had left the same group and came into church life. Another family also left the group and their son and daughter are now in the church life. These ones came purely because they loved the Lord and the word of God. We, as the church, simply opened the door and welcomes whoever would like to fellowship with us. No matter what their background may be, as long as they are believers, they are welcome.

The way I ended up meeting the family was significant. I had been considering purchasing a bookshelf for my family. With my children growing up, space for bookkeeping has become a great need. I had been devising in many ways to meet the need. I did online research, visited furniture stores for bookshelves, and finally, I came across an online ad that attracted me. The bookshelf and the price seemed quite attractive. So I called up the phone number of the seller and decided to purchase a metallic glass door bookshelf. But before I went forward to the final order, I decided to see the product with my own eyes and visit the shop. Yesterday the plan was made. 

Interestingly, in the morning I received a missed call from a brother whom I mentioned above. It was a surprise and also a coincidence? Then I called him and find out how he was doing and why he called. He told me he needed the Recovery Version of the Bible. Well then, I thought to myself, this might be the time to visit him. So I told him that I would be visiting a furniture shop in old Gurgram. When I enquired about his house, it was not too far from the shop I was to visit. Them I decided to visit him and he also welcomed me. That's' how we ended up meeting yesterday.

God indeed worked in a miraculous way. I could never give up on people. Even if I did, still the Lord would connect me somehow. So we had a good time of fellowship on "Sonship and the Body of Christ." He was so impressed by the depth of the truth we understand and teach, and also got his new copy of the New Testament Recovery Version.  Our brotherly relationship remains intact. 

May the Lord continue to speak to my brother and show him the vision of Christ and the church. It's up to him and up to the Lord if he ever would take the way of the church life. Much grace to him and his family.

A Week of Sickness

The past week was a new experience for me. I found myself lying on the bed most of the days. I felt fatigued and body ached with slight temperature. I was wondering what had happened to me. There was speculation of being infected by the current pandemic but on further examination, it sounded like a normal cold or viral fever. I did not bother to see the doctor either. I have this funda in my head that my body will feel weak if my supply of energy is weak. So the best was to fight against the weaknesses in my body is to feed my body with healthy food. So instead of spending on doctors' consultation with prescribed medicines, I would rather buy healthy food items and enjoy them. And boost my energy and fight against the germs that attack my body. I must keep strengthening my immune system.

This one week I was mostly lying on the bed, yet I still carried our all the responsibilities I have. Official duty is carried out by replying mails, and all other church shepherding activities happened through my phone while still on the bed. I cannot shrug off my responsibility with the excuse that I am weak. Yes, I did take rest, but still, I need to carry our my responsibilities. The Lord continued to grace me to finish all the daily shepherding works and my personal chores. This one week also gave me enough time to rest as I hardly rest otherwise. This time I could rest more. Praise the Lord for the experience of grace more even through my physical weakness.

My life has been so much into the word of God and the church life that I could not imagine a life without the word of God and the practice of the church life. While on my sickbed too, I could not give up my Bible reading, prayer with saints over the phone, and listening to the ministry messages. Even when I was supposed to rest, I still found myself doing my daily spiritual chores for over five hours. To me, that was the mercy of the Lord and I felt being blessed. The Lord has healed me gradually and I have also learned the importance of health. Good health and strength are also my prayer points on a regular basis for me and for all the serving ones without which we cannot practically serve the Lord at all.

A week of sickness is a week of learning and a week of rest. 

For God's Sake

Everything that we do must be for the sake of God. Be it our prayer or shepherding the saints, all that we do must have a goal. That goal must be for the building up fo the Body of Christ. All for God's sake.

As I prayed together with a brother regularly for the saints for the church, all the items of prayer that we offered one by one were directed to God and for His sake. We prayed that the saints would rise up to preach the gospel so that their function would be gained, much more the new ones, all for the sake of God. We prayed for the recovery of the dormant and backsliding saints, not merely for their recovery, but for the sake of God. We prayed for the increase in the number of the saints meeting regularly in the church in Gurugram, all for the sake of God. Everything that we prayed for, we prayed for God's sake. Now, we are crystal clear that we are here for God's sake. All that we do and say must all contribute to the fulfillment of God's heart's desire. All for God's sake.

Our views have been focused very much on all my prayers these days. We are very clear about the goal we desire to achieve in all our spiritual activities. All our rallying behind the saints in their affair is to shepherd them for the sake of God's purpose. We will spend and be spent on behalf of the saints. Our coordination in the church these days is solidly based on this goal. for God's sake. 

Even as a family, my children's education plan, all their upbringing, the discipline and teaching at home, and all the matters related to their lives are all with a view of God's economy. Everything is now for God's sake. 

May the Lord preserve me and my family for His sake, all the days of our lives.

Sowing Seed

A few weeks ago my daughter asked me for help to deal with an assignment given to her by her teacher. The assignment was to recite a Hindu mantra, which is a ritualistic practice of Hindu religion to invoke some form of deity for the benefit of man superstitiously and religiously. With me nor my wife telling her such things were not right for a family that believes in the true and living God, she herself had a deep sense in her being that it was indeed not right for her to do it. She was very restless, anxious, and lost her peace. She had tried her best to convince her teacher that she could be given something else instead. But her teacher stood her ground and did not budge an inch. She simply retorted that it was good to try new things. 

It was after our night prayer that I found my daughter to be very anxious. She requested me to help her in dealing with the matter. Then I jumped into the fray. As a father and as a Christian I stood for my daughter. I wrote a message to her teacher that my daughter was not comfortable doing the assignment of chanting a mantra as we did not believe in religion nor superstition. Then I also called her teacher to explain the mater. It was then that the teacher obliged my request and changed the assignment. To my surprise, my daughter's visage completely changed suddenly, from something very anxious and worried to something bright and joyful. She realized that she can confide on her dad in times of deep trouble. What she could not her father could! That was a lesson for her. it strengthened our father-daughter bond. 

The same week, she prophesied on the Lord's day about this incident and thanked the Lord that the Lord saved her by answering her prayer to be saved from doing something against her faith. That incident became a testimony of her faith amidst the unbelieving majority.

This is a testimony that our children have been under the constant sowing of seeds at home. Our Christian lives, our Bible reading, our prayer life, our church life, all the God-man exercises are sowing of seeds to the children. Unconsciously, the seed of the divine life has been sown into their being. Without us telling them what is idolatry, they all could easily discern what is not the true and living God. The three of our children have this divine innate sense in their being. Perhaps, they are the only Christians in their classes amidst the majoritarian Hindu in North India. We are glad that the Lord has been gracing them to be a testimony in their bit at their level. For this reason, we pay much attention to spiritual education at home; sowing spiritual seed.

Lord, preserve all our children, and may they grow in the divine life. The seed sown into them may grow and grow unto the full maturity.