Bonding with Children

On the 2nd of October, my son and I went woke up at 4:30 AM and went to Tau Devi Stadium in Gurugram for his basket ball practice. As for me, I used the two hours time for morning walk and prayer at the main stadium while my son and his school team were practising at one of the basket ball courts.

When he mentioned to me the day before, I felt it was a good time for father-son bonding though I could have sent him alone using a bike service. This kind of event was rare, and when it came, I wanted to grasped it. On the one hand, it was for bonding, on the other hand was to practically show that he has a father who cares for him.

By the way, it was my first time to visit the stadium though I have been residing in the city since 2005. I was impressed that a good number of people regularly visit the stadium for morning walk, exercises, jogging, and other health related activities. 

In addition, these days, I have been  spending time together regularly with my son and daughter. Though the elder one has gone for her degree studies in Taipei Taiwan, I still bond with her over WhatsApp video calls weekly when she updated me of all the major happenings in her life. Within my capacity as a father, it has truly been a blessing to care for God's blessed chidren in whatever way possible; financial support, my physical presence, moral support, and spiritual fellowship and prayers. They have been opening up to me important matters of their lives and some matters they felt I should be brought attention to. 

Academically, the Lord has blessed all the three chidren. My eldest daughter reported how she has been doing quite well in her studies. My son, inspite of the many school assigned extra curriculum activities he has been participating in, has been doing good in his midterm exam. He came among the top three in XI Science stream when many could not grasped the concepts properly after passing the Xth exam and scored a very low grade. I encouraged him to study well and understand all the concepts clearly and pray to the Lord Jesus for wisdom, knowledge, and understanding. My youngest daughter also did quite well as her teacher lauded her for her excellency in the works assigned to her when I met her during the parent-teacher-meet. By the way, she really worked hard to do all the works assigned to her by her teachers. She showed me some of her works. I was amazed at the proficiency with which she did her works. Perhaps, this young generation have been exposed to the latest technologies for their works and uptodate with my many things I am not even aware of.

Above all, glory to God. It is the Lord’s mercy that the Lord has blessed the chidren He blessed me with. They have been consecrated to the Lord. I pray for His grace to be a good guardian. 

Thank the Lord for a sweet time of family bonding and blending these days.