Many Christians, and people in general, always expect blessing(s). Blessing as many understand is mostly prosperity or physical blessings. However, the real blessing is not the blessing in itself. Every genuine blessing is from God, nevertheless, the blessings from God are not even the real blessing. The real blessing is God Himself, the One who bless as the blessing.
Counting blessings with physical scale is a real deception. Even running after physical or psychological prosperity as blessing is a deception. They are all mammon, which is directly against God, and are in tune with the devil.
Matthew 6:24, ..You cannot serve God and mammon.
Mammon: An Aramaic word signifying wealth, riches. Mammon stands in opposition to God, indicating that wealth, or riches, is the opponent of God, robbing God's people of their service to Him. http://online.recoveryversion.org/FootNotes.asp?FNtsID=249
The real blessing is God Himself. The Blesser of the blessings. When He blessed, we are blessed. One of the most significant tests of being blessed by God is the presence of God in our daily living. Where God is, there His presence is, His anointing is. When one is blessed, he is always joyful and fully content, and God is His satisfaction. Outwardly, nothing physical may be there to measure the blessing, but inwardly he has God's presence. Anyone with the slightest sense of discernment will sense the presence of God in Him. When he speaks, it is God speaking in and through Him, full of the riches of the Word, the flow of life, and the sweet anointing of the Spirit. This is the blessing.
Last Lord's day, our group meeting was such. The presence of the Lord was so sweet, the anointing so strong and the speaking so striking. That was the experience of God's blessing.
Children of God today should seek for the Lord's presence in every matter. Otherwise, all is vanity. We should live a life in God, in His presence day by day. Seek God, the greatest blessing in the universe.